tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356775352012-01-22T13:26:48.429-05:00"Power is the ability to see yourself through your own eyes, not through the eyes of others." Quote from a Cree Medicine WomanCyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.comBlogger171100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-53270458755346993282007-03-08T17:11:00.000-05:002007-03-08T17:38:13.977-05:00

Just when I didn't know what to blog about, I come across an idiot whose comments make almost impossible not to go "Julia Sugarbaker" on his ass! BTW - that was the lead character on Designing Women back in the 80's who was always up on her high horse about something.I was looking on Amazon.com at some plus-size books and came across, SEXY AT ANY SIZE: The Real Woman's Guide To Dating and

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-61032678730293090372007-03-06T18:59:00.000-05:002007-03-06T19:26:09.350-05:00

I just read a fantastic article on the confessions of a man who likes luscious women. It will make any woman feel 1000% better about her body!Check it out @ http://www.lardbiscuit.com/lard/truefa.html.In it he quotes a common phrase that European men use is:"The bone is for the dog... " "...but the meat is for the man!" Praise the Lord and pass the chocolate cake!

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-75109018380564012532007-03-05T11:45:00.000-05:002007-03-05T11:47:26.538-05:00

I didn't think I'd be posting twice in one day but I just read, "Is Obesity During Pregnancy Child Abuse?" which is an article I found after googling for obesity and pregnancy health risk information. You see, today is my 37th birthday and if I want to be a mommy, I need to get the lead out. But I obviously care enough about my future child to want to do everything possible to make sure it's

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-84011907086823666022007-03-05T02:58:00.000-05:002007-03-05T03:28:53.386-05:00

The following is from an an interview with Marilyn Wann, founder of http://www.fatso.com/. It's from the British e-zine, "Just As Beautiful."I'm posting this because it really expresses how I've been feeling as I go through my belief system about weight and food with my psychologist."I had been getting along by avoiding the topic of my weight. I didn't mention it, I hoped no one else would, and

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-48411815014882292692007-02-26T20:53:00.000-05:002007-02-26T21:52:12.005-05:00

Just look at Lakisha Jones…she is absolutely beautiful (and I would personally kill to know where she got that dress)! And if Mr. Negativity himself said the other 23 contestants should just go home so she must be doing something right!But here's the question - will her weight get in her way professionally? Let's be honest - if she wins, the media will be all over her. "Video killed the radio

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-51955278740106358802007-02-19T17:20:00.000-05:002007-02-19T18:13:33.822-05:00

Anna Nicole hasn't really been much more than tabloid fodder for the last decade. A hybrid of Mae West and Marilyn, she became nothing more than a caricature of herself by the time her premature demise came a a few weeks ago.It's sad that she never embraced her natural tendency to be plus-sized, instead using drugs - both legal and illegal - to keep herself within society's stringent standards of

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-63391895254141952312007-02-13T20:53:00.000-05:002007-02-14T02:05:32.964-05:00

As this is my Valentine's Day blog for AboutCurves.com, I thought I'd start with a retrospective of my Large & Luscious Love Affairs...sort of like Andie McDowell did when she rated all her lovers to Hugh Grant (a group to which he belonged) in the movie, Four Weddings & A Funeral.If you're too young to have seen it (it came out in 1994), do so because the way she takes ownership of her sexual

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1161641394132928272006-10-23T16:57:00.000-05:002006-10-23T17:09:54.150-05:00

I just found something that was very thought-provoking to me and wanted to share it. It's written by Steve Green, a contemporary Christian singer and songwriter. In a nutshell it's about idolatry which he explains is, "...my attempt to save myself, to secure comfort, control, acceptance and significance apart from God."Here's the whole passage:"...we are a community of wounded and broken people,

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160766685657919572006-10-13T13:55:00.000-05:002006-10-13T14:11:25.676-05:00

For the past month or so, I've been angst-ridden over a falling out with one of my friends. She's older than me but is in a major financial bind and is without a car. I became a taxi service for her almost every Saturday.After she laid a big guilt trip on me for not picking her up one day to go to WalMart, I started to ignore her phone calls (yes, I know this is passive-aggressive behavior). But

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160694013494327492006-10-12T17:48:00.000-05:002006-10-12T23:53:38.370-05:00

BTW - today is the birthday of one of my favorite people in the world...he's the male version of me so it's no wonder I like him. Of course, the idea of me with a pecker is pretty freakin' scary bcz I'm bad enough without kicking up the testosterone levels in my already over-heated, sexually primed, mid-thirties bod!He's as good a salesperson (maybe a little, tiny bit better on his good days)

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160693324126253782006-10-12T17:32:00.000-05:002006-10-12T17:48:44.133-05:00

So, I have three nodules in my right boob that I can't feel...and believe me, I've tried. I had my husband try...nothing. So I guess they're pretty small or they're hiding under all my lusciousness and refuse to be detected by human hands...though I know of someone who would offer to help me look for them in a heartbeat bcz his wife has fried egg boobs (i.e. very small).Anyway, I scheduled to

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160588992406798552006-10-11T09:40:00.000-05:002006-10-11T12:49:52.450-05:00

As I sit here, waiting to talk to a HUMAN FREAKIN' BEING at Equifax, I'm wondering how on earth older, less sophisticated or intelligent people deal with this bullshit? Nicholas Cage had less trouble finding the damn national treasure in that movie than than I'm having!I'm trying to find out why in the hell American Express is telling me that Equifax told them that there was a serious delinquency

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160533030660697722006-10-10T19:57:00.000-05:002006-10-10T21:17:10.870-05:00

My name is _ _ _ _ _ and I'm a Diet Coke-aholic. I love it. It is the nectar of the gods and the elixir of the goddesses. I love the way it burns my throat and makes my eyes water. I love the way it makes my mouth feel cleaned out from all other tastes.I love the red and white swoop and I can still sing the jingle from the 80's, Diiet Co-oke is onuva Ki-ind, You-u can look but you'll nee-ver

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160456594714311732006-10-09T23:56:00.000-05:002006-10-10T00:03:14.726-05:00

I just sent my ex-boss/business-partner a long email letting him know, in a nice but brutally honest way, how his firing of me (and taking the magazine away from me) affected me. The hub thought maybe I shouldn't send it because it was good for me to just write it all down but I wanted the ex-boss to know what I went through and that I've worked hard to forgive him, not because he asked me to,

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160441314155374822006-10-09T19:48:00.000-05:002006-10-09T21:50:19.173-05:00

This morning my boobs, or "The Girls" as the hub ever-so-lovingly refers to them, had their second slam-o-gram in a matter of weeks bcz the powers that be saw something "suspicious." Don'tcha love how they use these adjectives - "suspicious" - like my tits are wearing dark sunglasses and a sardonic smile...yeah, that's it, they're planning to rob a Victoria Secrets and clean them out of triple-D

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160291579305869872006-10-08T02:05:00.000-05:002006-10-08T02:18:04.036-05:00

Creating this blog is cool and, as "Elle" from Legally Blond would say - SUPERFUN - however, I've gotten lost in the creative process and it's now 3am. I can hear my husband snoring on the couch with the TV on and my dogs are sacked out on the floor beside my desk chair.May have to skip church tomorrow bcz will have no-sleep handgover but I know I'll regret it all week if I do. The sermon is on "

CyberFlirtnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35677535.post-1160284742855923452006-10-07T22:46:00.000-05:002006-10-08T00:19:02.870-05:00

While it's touted to be good for the soul, journaling has NEVER been my strong suite. That being said, I'm probably a BORN BLOGGER because it was the lack of READERS that inhibited my journal-writing career. Why the hell waste time and emotional energy writing something if nobody's going to read it?My Mom's best friend gave me a beautiful pink journal with dried, pressed wildflowers on the front

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